Watch the Throne

Ok so in this vlog, there were several men who gave their opinion of women and the motives behind the relationships that they form with women.  One man spoke on how he expected something from a women after a date and that he determined early on what kind of relationship that he wanted from a woman.  His attitude and demeanor made me wonder, where on earth did this man developed such a terrible mentality?  He made a comment about how women should be more responsible about the way they handle their bodies with men. But I found myself wondering, "Well, where is your responsibility? If you think that highly of a woman's womb, then why would you be party to defiling it?"

Then I started to think about what he was saying. . . . . . . and to some extent I had to agree.  We (women) have compromised our values, allowed men to disrespect and use us, conformed to the world and become the weaker sex.  Oh you don't think so?  Explain this to me then, why is it that a man can manipulate us into giving up a part of ourselves that we can not get back?  Why is that we will actually compete on some level for a man's attention?  Why is that we allow men, who have not earned the right, to be King of the Throne? 

Whether many of us are unwilling to admit it, we (majority of women) are responsible for the state we are in when it comes to how we relate to men.  What is happening is this:  You have a collection of women who have an issue with being alone and are willing to submit to a man who is unworthy.  And when you give a man that kind of power over you without just cause, you take part in creating a man who will think like a King but not behave like one.  When you look up KING it says "a paramount chief or one that holds a preeminent position" and I am sure that many of these men do not qualify.

See in the past, I played a part in creating a man with this false sense of dominion.  There is no reason why a man should view women in such a way like this man does.  Especially since it was a WOMAN that brought him into this world.  And it is this same man, who has found a "good woman", decided to turn from his ways and settle down.  If he represents the way a majority of men think, it is going to be interesting to see the mentality of new generation of men.  

But ladies there is hope.  The one thing that my last relationship showed me is this: There is a man who is wiling to treat you like a woman. . . not his personal freak, not his trophy but his QUEEN. He will love you and do what it takes to be worthy of the Throne.  So lose this idea that you have to deal with FOOLISHNESS just so you do not have to be alone and please make that man SHOW you that he is worthy to be a KING in your life.

Sidenote, I leave you with this.  My uncle use to always say, "Animals have more sense than people sometimes."  Now ask yourself, when do you ever see a female compete or attract a mate??  I'll wait for it.

If you are interested in checking out the vlog here is the link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HP86xnwX6Ps&feature=youtu.be

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